A letter for my daughter, Z.
July 3rd 2015.
My dearest girl,
You will grow up, and you will want to live a life completely as a woman and be marry to someone.
I can only give you advices, and support your decision fully.
Remember to be careful so you do not offer too much of yourself to a man until you have good, solid evidence that he is a strong man willing to commit. Look at his track record with other women.
Is there anything to be concerned about there?
If so, bring it up.
Also, does he have any close male friends - and what are they like as men?
Can he hold down a job?
Is he walking with our RABB in a real way?
Is he facing the wounds of his own life, and is he also demonstrating a desire to repent passivity and violence?
Is he headed somewhere with his life?
A lot of questions, questions that I didn't get the nerves to asked to the man I once married. But always remember, your heart is a treasure, and we want you to offer it only to a man who is worthy and ready to handle it well.
Do not make the same mistakes I did. Sadly I am not a good example for you. All I want is for you to be happy. And keep in mind, be faithfull, my love.
From a person who loves you until the end of time.