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You have to know when to put a STOP to what is happening to you.
To understand your worth and do something to get yourself out from your situation.
To truly not believing anymore to : "It was a mistake, I didn't mean it" or "I'm sorry, it won't happen anymore" or "I was just kidding".
Ask yourself this : Has he ever threatened to hurt you? Has he ever trapped you in a room and not let you out? Has he ever raised a fist as if he were going to hit you? Or worse, has he ever hit you? Has he ever held you down or grabbed you to restrain you? Has he ever thrown an object that hit you or nearly did? Has he ever make you feel so small and worthless as if no one would ever take you in but him?
If the answer to any of these questions is yes, then please, stop wondering whether he’ll ever be violent, he already has been.
Get yourself out. Now is the time.
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Liars Liars Pants On Fire

#word for today : When we are penalized for honesty we learns to lie.

It's discouraging to think how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit.  And that's the thing about people who mean everything they say.  They think everyone else does too. Sadly, NOT. But for me, to believe in something, and not to live it, is dishonest. I do not want to start to learn to lie. The real things haven't changed.  It is still best to be honest and truthful.  Hiding how we really feel and trying to make everyone happy doesn't make us nice, it just makes us a liar.
Jika kita harus menerima konsekuensi yang tidak kita harapkan karena kita mengungkapkan sesuatu dengan jujur, maka kita akan belajar untuk berdusta. Mencengang bagaimana kita lebih bisa menerima white lies (walaupun dalam hati mengetahuinya) dibandingkan tertampar dengan kenyataan yang pahit.
Masalah yang dialami oleh mereka yang hidup berintegritas adalah mereka berpikir semua orang memiliki pemikiran yang sa…